Query submitted via the Free Cartomancy Readings page.
“Grey” inquires: “What can I do to get over it? I’ve been feeling regret for too long but the approaches I take to let things go don’t really get me too far. It’s time for me to move forward once and for all.”
The Enchanted Lenormand Oracle: Broom (11) + Fox (14) + Coffin (8).
Forgive me for being Captain Obvious, but you’re doubling down on hurting yourself. You’re feeling more than just regret, and you keep sabotaging any attempts to move forward because you don’t feel like you deserve to move forward. You are letting the specter of what happened, what could have been, and what it became hang over you, overshadowing everything you do because you don’t feel like you have atoned enough for your part in what happened. Let go. Let go of everything connected to it. Literally: Bury your dead. Stop holding that wake in your living room. Clean house, and remove those things you’ve been holding on to for far too long. That was then. This is now. Tomorrow is another day. Greet it without [her].