Anony asks: “How can I find love? I guess this point it’s not about where or when but how I can let love in. I have been at it for so long that sometimes I wonder if I truly let people in. Thanks.”

The Bosch Tarot answers: “7 of Wands.”

Stop hating yourself. Stop finding all the reasons you don’t deserve love or should not be loved. Stop using your idiosyncrasies to justify punishing yourself for not being an ideal of perfection that isn’t even attainable in the first place. Stop cutting off your nose to spite your face. Start allowing yourself to make mistakes. Start allowing yourself to enjoy experiences you may have been told you shouldn’t like. Start taking things one day at a time, and understand healing is a continuing process, not a step to be checked off a list.